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Memorable Firsts with a Memorable Guy

firstsWhen I was young, I was very intimidated by guys. My siblings were all female and I seldom saw my one male cousin. When I was in seventh grade, I began going to dances at the Junior High School. My girlfriends all had guy crushes and they were always reciprocated. Continue reading

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Two Wrongs Can Make a Right

wrongsDo two wrongs really make a right? When I think of my experiences with Marriage, I think they can. Sometimes, we have omens that we should pay attention to.  Continue reading

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Manifesting the Perfect Day

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Engagement–a few months before

My wedding was going to be intimate, serene, and perfect. I imagined it that way and worked thoughtfully on the details.

Few events in life have as many deep customs, subtle nuances, and crazy rituals, AND opportunities for things to go wrong–like a wedding.

My wedding day, July 7, 2000, began sunny and bright with POSSIBLE showers later in the day. We were celebrating the event at the Heidel House. It was a quaint, secluded resort on the shores of Green Lake in Wisconsin. Continue reading

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59 Years and Counting

weddingWe got married quite young.  I was engaged as a senior in high school.  My fiancé at the time, now my husband of 59 years, was two years older than me.  We had dated on and off since I was 15.  Unbelievable.  They said it would never last. Continue reading

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Details Worth Remembering

For so many, their wedding day is one of the most memorable events of their life.  For me, with my swiss cheese brain, the complete details are a bit lacking.  I do, however, remember a few details worth mentioning.

Wedding shoes

rememberingI was adamant that I would NOT go barefoot at my reception regardless of how my feet felt.  None of the shoes I found were anything that I liked, so  I found a simple pair of white satin heels and applied beaded appliques.  I hate it when brides are wearing a beautiful gown and then proceed to either barefoot or wear stupid comfortable shoes.  So – even though my feet were killing me, I kept my wedding heels on for the duration of the day.  (My toes were numb for the next week in Jamaica) Continue reading

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Can Netflix Binging be Considered Self-Care?

netflixI’ve never really thought much about self-care until recently.  Previously, I feel like I just did certain things because I liked them.  Now, I try to more consciously perform some self-care. Here is a list of the items I’m currently doing to take care of myself. Continue reading

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Drunk on the Beach

beachSelf-care is actually a way of life for me.  I tend to do the things I like even when there are many things on my agenda that I put off as I don’t enjoy them. So, while looking over the list of topics that I have written down that is my self-care I feel that I mostly do self-care on a regular basis.  Continue reading

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Hippy Dippy vs Healthy and Grounded

How do you “self-care”? 

Well, the first thing you need to know is “What IS self-care anyway? According to the Googles, it is “doing something that helps your body, mind or soul feel good”. 

Hippy Dippy

Oh god, this brings up visions of a bubble bath in a claw-footed tub, a meditation on an Indian-patterned pillow in a sunlit studio, yoga on an open patio overlooking the ocean, and long walks in an old-growth forest. So hippy-dippy, so self-indulgent and unrealistic.

Now, the other day, I was walking on a cool morning along a country road. The road was lined with dandelions. Millions and billions of dandelions. I know Evie and Stella (my Golden Retriever walking companions) thought I was crazy as I slowed down and began to take pictures. Then I reached down to one random flower/weed and plucked it. And you know what we used to do as kids? We would rub the flower under our chin and ask…”Do I like butter?” 
If there was yellow pollen on your neck, you did. Continue reading

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There Is Only One Me!

Three words that best describe me are snarky, persistent, and creative:

Snarky

snarkyI love to be snarky. Actually, it comes quite naturally.  One of my favorite characters that I identify with is the cartoon character “Maxine”.  She reminds me of how I think most of the time.  Mix in a little more empathy and that is me.  I am not a flowery speaking type of person.  Continue reading

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