• Prosperity Looks a Lot Like Family

    prosperousWhen I first thought about the feeling of being prosperous, I saw it as a money thing.  But then I realize that feeling prosperous to me is a feeling of love and respect.

    I have felt more prosperous when I have positive feedback from friends and relatives.  I have six grandchildren, and have felt extremely prosperous when I get loving and positive feedback from them.  I have been blessed with having them all residing close in proximity to me, and that has made it possible to have a close relationship with each one of them.  It makes me feel extremely prosperous when it is their desire to spend time at Grandma’s, such as sleepovers, shopping trips, picnics, trips to the park, or just hanging out with me. 

  • All the Feels

    What makes you feel a connection with another person? Some people make you feel cared for and seen. Others, not so much.

    Let me give you a couple of examples of what I mean. 

    A while ago, Michelle and I were talking about our parents and we found out that we have completely different takes on a common occurrence.

  • Show Me The Love

    Candlelight dinner from Nathan – Valentine’s Day 2011

    When trying to think about what makes me feel loved or what gives me warm fuzzies, the first thought that comes to mind is when my kids remember to thank me for something I’ve done for them.  

  • Losing Loved Ones

    familyIn contemplating what my greatest fear is, I’d have to say it’s the fear of loss.  The idea of losing a member of my family is unbearable to me.  Whether it’s my sister, my mom or dad, my aunt, any of my kids, or any of my family, the thought brings me to tears. 

  • My Feisty Grandma

    Grandma Doris is one of the major reasons that I wanted to start Sidetracked Legacies. She was fun and feisty. But she’s been gone since June 2007 and it’s only now that I realize just how little I actually knew about her.

  • Our Family Loves an Old Curmudgeon!

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    Me, Uncle Lloyd, & Little John

    We have many interesting family members, but I’m going to pick one of my favorites.  Uncle Lloyd.  I could write for days about Uncle Lloyd.  He was like a grandpa to me.  Many people thought he was just a crabby old man, but I knew different.  

  • Are Grandparents Obsolete?

    grandparentsWomen over fifty (and of course, men also), are all so excited with the prospect of being grandparents.  I go along with this as it gives us a second chance, or tries to make up for some of the mistakes that we made with our children.  Most of us were probably young and did the best we thought we could, but as our children will most often advise us we often screwed up at some point.