I’m trying to think of what my best compliment is. Is this an easy thing for other people to come up with? I’ve been thinking about this and I seem to only think of insults that I’ve received.
Unfortunately, it’s very easy to come up with a lot of negative comments or insults, but not as easy to come up with the compliments. I think that’s a problem for a lot of people. The negative things are much easier to believe. What’s the quote from Pretty Woman… “People put you down enough, you start to believe it.” and “The bad stuff is easier to believe… ever notice that?”
Recently I’ve been trying to improve my mindset about the things around me and myself. To do this, I purchased “The Law of Attraction Planner“. In the first few pages, you are instructed to write down your five best qualities. For the life of me, I couldn’t think of what they were. At that point, I reached out to a few of my friends to see what they felt those qualities were and here is what I was told:
Trustworthy, loving, moral, genuine, well-spoken, sensitive, adventurous, educated, hard-working, attractive, compassionate, fun, sexy…
Doing this exercise provided me with a much needed shot in the arm. I’m starting to realize that I am very hard on myself. Again – this is something that I’m working on daily. I’m trying to start each day with a positive mantra – telling myself that I’m beautiful. I’m smart. I’m strong. I’m talented. I’m powerful. I’m enough.
Therefore – I think the best compliment for me is from me. I AM ENOUGH!