• Truthful: Because Filters Are for Coffee

    In some families, politeness is the rule. They’ll smile sweetly, tell you your casserole is “just delicious,” and gush that your new haircut makes you look so young. In our family? Not so much. We don’t do polite lies—we do truthful answers. Sometimes brutally so.

    If I ask my sister, “Does this outfit look good on me?” I know I’m not getting a sugar-coated reply. If it makes me look like I’ve gained ten pounds, she’ll tell me. If my hairstyle is doing me no favors, she’ll announce it. And honestly, I’d rather hear her truthful opinion than a polite fib.

  • Motivated. . . Against My Will

    motivatedI had a vision.  It was called Amway. Who doesn’t want to get rich?  Well, friends started to get involved in this new idea to sell the Amway opportunity.  They had products that you sold.  The key is becoming a member or distributor and recruiting others to do the same. This allows you to build a downline and potentially become extremely wealthy.  Once you reach the diamond level, you’ve arrived at your desired destination: wealth without the effort. Your team members, who have signed up under you, are doing the work, and you reap the benefits of their hard work.

    It’s never framed that way, of course, because who wants to admit that your big dreams might just land you working hard so someone else can get rich?