Survival Lifeline
It is said that it takes a village to raise a child. I agree with this, but it also takes having a lifeline of both friends of friends and relatives to survive in life. Not everyone is lucky enough to have a good support system such as a lifeline, but it sure helps and makes things a lot easier.
In reflecting I have discovered that having a lifeline has made my whole life possible. This goes back to being able to go back to work after both my girls were born for example. I was lucky to have my parents who lived in the same town and were often available when I needed help. This included babysitting and a lot of moral support. We had just purchased a new home while I was pregnant with our first and it was certainly helpful to have the love, support, caring, and knowledgeable parents.
Throughout my years it has been necessary to call on my lifeline several times, the most recent being when my husband of sixty-two years passed away. Boy did I need that lifeline then and still do now. I am sure the need for the help of family and friends will never end. Life is complicated and stressful and it sure helps to have that village to fall back on.
My husband was ill for the last two years of his life. I have my family, especially my daughters, who stepped up to the plate every day to help with his care, doctor appointments, and a shoulder to cry on. When I came to say goodbye to my husband, all of my lifeline people were there for me. This included everything from helping to write the obituary to planning a funeral and being there for moral support. I was especially honored to think how lucky I was to have all this help. A great example was when all six grandchildren showed me a tremendous amount of support, caring, and love which included a sleepover at my house in order to be there for me showing more love and caring than I could ever imagine.
Having a lifeline is crucial because it provides support, stability, and reassurance during difficult times. Whether it’s a trusted friend, family member, mentor, or professional resource, a lifeline offers guidance, encouragement, and a sense of security when facing challenges. Life is unpredictable, and moments of stress, uncertainty, or hardship can feel overwhelming without someone to lean on. A strong support system can help with decision-making, emotional well-being, and even practical solutions to problems. Knowing that help is available fosters resilience, confidence, and the ability to navigate obstacles with greater ease.
Not only does it take a village to raise a child, but it takes a lifeline to handle all the stress and hardships that summarize just plain living.
Lifelines come in many shapes and forms and even activities.
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